tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8780738657147797732.post7590951647608027506..comments2024-03-03T10:39:23.231+01:00Comments on ~ My little old world ~ gardening, home, poetry and everything romantic that makes us dream.: "Ring the bell softly, there's crape on the door." - TO MOURN A BROTHER.Danielahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01759677667896507266noreply@blogger.comBlogger34125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8780738657147797732.post-69024715385566346372016-10-19T08:56:54.972+02:002016-10-19T08:56:54.972+02:00@ Antonella
carissima, grazie per essere qui, come...@ Antonella<br />carissima, grazie per essere qui, come sempre il mio cuore si rinfranca nell'accoglierti e nel leggere i tuoi commenti ... Sei sempre così tanto generosa con me, non merito i tuoi complimenti, dolce amica mia !<br /><br />Quanto al 'galateo' del lutto suppongo, anzi, sono certa che esistano tutt'oggi delle regole da rispettare, sicuramente meno rigide di un tempo quando debordavano, a mio giudizio, in una forma di esibizionismo, ma pur sempre degne di essere osservate in segno di rispetto per il caro estinto e per la sua famiglia ... onestamente non le conosco nel dettaglio, ma credo che la buona creanza già possa essere sufficiente per guidarci in tali situazioni ... purtroppo in molti oggi la ignorano ...<br /><br />Ti abbraccio con tutto il cuore augurandoti una serena giornata, <br />con un grande bacio ❥Danielahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01759677667896507266noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8780738657147797732.post-53729539832479730362016-10-13T16:54:52.985+02:002016-10-13T16:54:52.985+02:00Carissima Daniela,fra gli altri doni hai anche que...Carissima Daniela,fra gli altri doni hai anche quello di saper mettere in parole i sentimenti,sentimenti che in questo caso purtroppo ben conosco.<br />Quando si arriva ad una certa eta' ci si trova piu'spesso a dover partecipare a cerimonie funebri,dove con dispiacere ho notato una cosa.<br />Come tu documenti molto bene, in passato forse l'abbigliamento usato durante e dopo la cerimonia forse era un po' troppo austero,ma oggi non siamo all'opposto!?<br />Mi è successo proprio di recente,di trovarmi ad essere l'unica (e a disagio)in giacca pantaloni neri,e capelli raccolti..in mezzo ad una Chiesa piena di signore vestite come per andare a fare la spesa.<br />Ma non c'è un galateo anche per queste circostanze!?<br />Mi devo modernizzare!?(battuta)<br />un bacio Dany<br /> Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03599428331688527403noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8780738657147797732.post-50760364244660204982016-10-02T19:51:40.778+02:002016-10-02T19:51:40.778+02:00Sono qui per ringraziare voi tutti, leggere le vos...Sono qui per ringraziare voi tutti, leggere le vostre parole di cordoglio e di conforto ha ristorato il mio cuore e mi ha fatto sentire così fortunata ad avere degli amici tanto meravigliosi, con il vostro amore avete abbracciato la mia anima, vi sono estremamente grata per tutti i vostri commenti.<br /><br />Possa il Signore e la sua Grazia camminare sempre al vostro fianco<br /><br />~ ♥<br /><br />I'm here for thanking you all, reading your words of simpathy and of solace has comforted my heart and make me feel so blessed by having such wonderful Blog-Friends, you all have embraced my soul with your love, I'm chiefly grateful to you all for your comments !<br /><br />May the Lord and his Grace walk always side by side with you,<br />be blessed<br /><br />Xx DanyDanielahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01759677667896507266noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8780738657147797732.post-9635633853956953082016-10-01T18:41:21.658+02:002016-10-01T18:41:21.658+02:00I'm so sorry Dany.I'm so sorry Dany. Sallie (FullTime-Life)https://www.blogger.com/profile/15442598857394838271noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8780738657147797732.post-78679159435630791832016-09-30T01:03:26.219+02:002016-09-30T01:03:26.219+02:00Your ending prayer for the departed one and his fa...Your ending prayer for the departed one and his family was beautiful, as was this tribute to his life. May the Lord send His Comforting spirit to you and your grieving family members... Love, JESJEShttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08300505126646960374noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8780738657147797732.post-10409061816667419582016-09-25T15:10:34.840+02:002016-09-25T15:10:34.840+02:00Dearest Dany, HELLO! Good morning to you! First of...Dearest Dany, HELLO! Good morning to you! First of all, it is fascinating to me how through the ages and in every culture, we develop modes of survival for life and death. I can still remember as a child, some of these older ways of dealing with loss implemented into our lives. Black, a certain amount of time when it was outlandish to express joy, etc...and now, death is often more of a celebration of that person's life. Dearest Dany, I wish you a lovely Sunday and thank you so much for coming to visit my blog. We are thrilled that the hard work we put into this house is being recognized in a small but significant way: sharing it with others.<br /><br />Much love to you! AnitaCastles Crowns and Cottageshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01780241008313365707noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8780738657147797732.post-84487507997579508022016-09-25T07:06:11.695+02:002016-09-25T07:06:11.695+02:00Oh my dear Dany, I was just so saddened to read of...Oh my dear Dany, I was just so saddened to read of the tragedy that has befallen your family, and the deep sorrow that you are all feeling right now. I do pray that somehow the Lord's comfort will be made known to all of the family who are suffering and missing this beloved man. This post you wrote was so very informative to me, I did know about some of the traditions, but the length of time to wear black for some deaths - 2 years, my, that is a long time! <br /><br />However we do that in Jesus we have a hope that goes beyond this world, and I pray that you and the family are able to find peace in the midst of the sorrow you are feeling. You will all be in my prayers! Many hugs and prayers for you today! Marilyn @ MountainTopSpicehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00600290895531484438noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8780738657147797732.post-26698355669499892282016-09-25T05:36:38.333+02:002016-09-25T05:36:38.333+02:00Dear Dany,
I am so sad to read about the loss of y...Dear Dany,<br />I am so sad to read about the loss of your beloved cousin. Sending my love and heartfelt sympathy to you my friend. Losing a loved one is never easy.....sharing in your sadness Dany, so very sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers for you, <br />Xo<br />LindaLinda Walkerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03812556446959019991noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8780738657147797732.post-45064648220744650062016-09-24T15:25:16.728+02:002016-09-24T15:25:16.728+02:00mia cara dany mi rammarica sapere questa triste no...mia cara dany mi rammarica sapere questa triste notizia del tuo caro cugino..<br />ti sono vicina e ti mando un abbraccio forte...<br />danielainfuso di risohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04742290993476259034noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8780738657147797732.post-59399226909317194442016-09-23T22:09:46.137+02:002016-09-23T22:09:46.137+02:00Dearest Dany,
I am so sorry to hear of the passing...Dearest Dany,<br />I am so sorry to hear of the passing of your beloved cousin.<br />Sending prayers of comfort to you, my dear.<br />Hugs,<br />JemmaJemma@athomewithjemmahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01137225389791605398noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8780738657147797732.post-65213110325369072302016-09-22T21:01:45.194+02:002016-09-22T21:01:45.194+02:00Dany Dear, I am so very sorry. I just passed the f...Dany Dear, I am so very sorry. I just passed the first anniversary of the death of a dear cousin who was like a sister. It is a difficult time for you, but your wonderful memories of him will comfort you. Are you not glad you don't have to concern yourself with these complicated Victorian requirements at such a sad time. Hugs.Jean | DelightfulRepast.comhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02038772991628796917noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8780738657147797732.post-42219612290780030992016-09-22T17:30:09.667+02:002016-09-22T17:30:09.667+02:00Hello Daniela, sorry to hear about he loss of your...Hello Daniela, sorry to hear about he loss of your cousin. Sometimes it doesn't make sense and it is difficult to understand. May wonderful memories fill your heart with joy. HugsLinda @ Life and Lindahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00210490476537882296noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8780738657147797732.post-89514219219761965202016-09-22T12:57:14.647+02:002016-09-22T12:57:14.647+02:00My deepest and most sincere condolences for your d...My deepest and most sincere condolences for your devastating loss. A sudden death of a beloved person brings our daily routines to a standstill and emptyness to our souls. Give yourself time and permission to grieve. It is allowed and important.<br /><br />With many warm thoughts and loving hugs 💕 riittariitta khttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00846480905422316167noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8780738657147797732.post-44166252749776449192016-09-21T22:30:04.941+02:002016-09-21T22:30:04.941+02:00Darling Dany,
I am so sorry for your loss. Please...Darling Dany, <br />I am so sorry for your loss. Please accept my heart felt condolences. Your family will be in my prayers. May God comfort you all.<br />Sending you many hugsanniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12179126521525239749noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8780738657147797732.post-3790521324565935832016-09-21T22:13:09.688+02:002016-09-21T22:13:09.688+02:00Cara Daniela, che tragica notizia...mi spiace tant...Cara Daniela, che tragica notizia...mi spiace tantissimo per l' improvvisa perdita e ti abbraccio forte. <br />Bacioni AlessandraAlessandrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08837160571378736854noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8780738657147797732.post-13872332136927268652016-09-21T07:05:42.576+02:002016-09-21T07:05:42.576+02:00found lucky myself to meet you today dear,though c...found lucky myself to meet you today dear,though could not read due to unknown language but what understood by comments is hard to bear and painful ,i lost my both parents three years ago and that changed me as a human being nothing could put me back on the place where i used to be and world seen by eyes was used to touch my soul but now nothing reaches inside just breathing though .<br />your place delivers gave and calmness to hold and think peacefully ,music is soul touching and art is marvelous .may god bless you with strength to bear this loss amenbailihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06498012175058870980noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8780738657147797732.post-33004787013229174302016-09-21T02:32:49.042+02:002016-09-21T02:32:49.042+02:00a morte, a despedida, tão presente na vida de todo...a morte, a despedida, tão presente na vida de todos nós !! sempre difícil de entender, se é que a gente pode entender ...<br />um grande abraço para você e que Deus traga consolo ao seu coração !!<br /><br />lianhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16233827224893679426noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8780738657147797732.post-41929853759889191382016-09-21T02:10:55.550+02:002016-09-21T02:10:55.550+02:00Oh Dany how sorry I am to hear of the loss of your...Oh Dany how sorry I am to hear of the loss of your dear cousin who was very close to you. It is so hard when it is sudden and very unexpected like this, our Pastor is doing a sermon series next month on those times that we ask why about situations that have happened in our lives and I am very interested in hearing what he has to say. When we lost our baby to stillbirth when we tried so hard to get pregnant I had the same questions and so hard to get over.<br />May God grant you and your family peace as you remember all the beautiful times you shared with him.<br />I think back in these times it would have been good in a way to have the mourning attire, sometimes it is hard to go right back to living life without them and it would be a reminder to others of that, they might not be thinking that you are having a hard time just getting through a day now when there isn't that reminder for them. I also wonder though if it made it harder for the people left behind to be able to heal faster than they could without the constant reminder of wearing the clothes, I guess what I am saying is I can see the good and bad of the rules they had back then.<br />((((HUGS)))) to you my friendConniecrafterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09266327228870948083noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8780738657147797732.post-24023849256169497182016-09-20T21:36:17.077+02:002016-09-20T21:36:17.077+02:00Oh, my dear Dany, I am so very sorry to hear of yo...Oh, my dear Dany, I am so very sorry to hear of your loss! My heart breaks for you, and I will keep you and your dear loved one's family in my thoughts and prayers. A very touching post on mourning while your heart grieves in kind. We cannot know why some things happen and can only have faith in the wisdom of the divine. Now you will have a guardian angel always by your side. Sending much love and sympathy for your loss. xo Karen Karen @ Beatrice Euphemiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08631972741518142563noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8780738657147797732.post-2779348190543105602016-09-20T18:50:17.842+02:002016-09-20T18:50:17.842+02:00Mi dispiace infinitamente, mia cara amica, per la ...Mi dispiace infinitamente, mia cara amica, per la la perdita del tuo amato cugino.<br />Grazie per le tue interessanti e sensibili informazioni.<br />Un abbraccio di vero cuore.<br />Luci@IlCalessehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04020654675393178922noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8780738657147797732.post-65793631514625592662016-09-20T17:53:45.574+02:002016-09-20T17:53:45.574+02:00Liebe Dani,
wie schmerzvoll, einen lieben Menschen...Liebe Dani,<br />wie schmerzvoll, einen lieben Menschen zu verlieren.<br />Ich fühle mit dir,deine Worte haben mich sehr ergriffen. <br />Durch deine wunderbaren Gedanken wird er immer in deiner Erinnerung bleiben. <br />Ich wünsche dir ein Erinnerungslicht, dass dich wärmt und tröstet.<br />Alles Liebe,<br />Manuela<br />Manuelahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12417944157541991953noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8780738657147797732.post-2155538544208193742016-09-20T17:40:59.711+02:002016-09-20T17:40:59.711+02:00Dearest Daniela, The loss of your cousin in such a...Dearest Daniela, The loss of your cousin in such a painful experience is so sad. This type of sadness because of medical neglect is something I understand so deeply. My niece at age 27 with three children died in a similar painful experience. A simple checking of her chart would have saved her life. One can never accept this neglect that caused death or forget the terrible loss and sadness that follows. My prayers and deep sympathy goes out to you and your family.<br />With much love and wishes for you to find peace somehow,<br />JeanneJeannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02496069719875179788noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8780738657147797732.post-9265861508456546482016-09-20T10:34:40.719+02:002016-09-20T10:34:40.719+02:00Cara Daniela, ti porgo le mie condoglianze per il ...Cara Daniela, ti porgo le mie condoglianze per il lutto che ti ha colpito; una preghiera per tuo cugino. R.I.P.<br /><br />Molto interessante e dettagliato, come solo tu sai fare, lo scritto sui costumi ed i rituali relativi al lutto.<br />Un forte e sentito abbraccio<br />SusannaSusannahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11706858524099669261noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8780738657147797732.post-63386249017399117192016-09-19T22:11:49.033+02:002016-09-19T22:11:49.033+02:00Oh, dear Dany, this post breaks my heart. A loss o...Oh, dear Dany, this post breaks my heart. A loss of someone dear is difficult no matter what the circumstance, of course, but I think when it is quite unexpected or when there is fault involved, it makes it ever so much harder. I can understand why you were drawn to this sad topic (and fascinating, too) for your post. I knew much of this from the past but I learned a good deal and much more specifically.<br /><br />What will remain with me, though, is your blessing for Marco at the end. A new star to light the sky. I'll make a wish tonight for peace and healing for you.Jeaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17482528482559445943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8780738657147797732.post-14712967212023361532016-09-19T20:57:35.667+02:002016-09-19T20:57:35.667+02:00So sorry to hear about the death of your beloved c...So sorry to hear about the death of your beloved cousin. With this post you made a warm tribute to him.<br />With deepest condolences from JannekeJanneke https://www.blogger.com/profile/11056916431881916066noreply@blogger.com